Please pray for me. I developed a crush on a woman at work with/see every day. I know I cannot be with her but my thoughts and feelings for her have spiralled out of control. It is like an obsession I can’t get over. I don’t stalk her or message or anything weird like that but the energy that I’m using every day at work is wearing me out and I’m just not me anymore. I spend alot of time crying and imagining all sorts of things. It is my own fault I know for falling for her in this way and it is ruining my life but I just can’t seem to get over it or let it go no matter how rationally I look at it. I don’t know if it’s meant to be a trial or just the fact that I’ve done something stupid. I’m ashamed to say it but there is also quite alot of lust involved with it as well. I’ve always had problems in this area unfortunately. I know Jesus died on the cross for my sins but I don’t do a very good job of honouring him in my life. I pray that you would ask God to help me/give me the strength to get over it. Getting to the end of my rope really. Thanks for putting up with my long message. God Bless.